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PART 2: Is it ARFID? Rethinking Eating Differences Through a Neurodiversity- Affirming Lens.
In Part 1, I explored why calling everything "picky eating" can lead us to miss what some children and families are actually experiencing - what ARFID is, how it shows up in real life, and why "wait and see" is rarely the neutral option it sounds like. Since that post, a few questions have come up. If my child is growing well, can it still be ARFID? What's the difference between eating or feeding differences and an eating disorder like ARFID? And finally, will things ever act

Karlien
Jun 128 min read


Is your tween sneaking food? Learn common reasons young people eat in secret and how to respond calmly and supportively.
My Tween Is Sneaking Food. What it Means and What to Do? A few weeks ago, a mum asked me this while we were standing next to the sports field. She explained that she’d noticed her 11-year-old daughter sneaking food a few times lately. She’d found her in front of the freezer at night, eating ice cream straight from the tub. She’d also been finding chips/crisps wrappers tucked into school bags and chocolate wrappers hidden under the bed. “These foods are in the house,” she said

Karlien
Mar 1712 min read


PART 1: Is It ARFID or Picky Eating? What we miss when we call everything picky eating
Picky eating is one of the most common concerns parents raise about their children’s eating. And yet, it’s also one of the most misunderstood. As someone who works closely with families around eating differences, and who navigates this as a parent too, I see just how wide the range is. That’s why this topic can feel so confusing. One parent might describe their child as “fussy” because they don’t like green vegetables. Another might use the same word to describe a child who o

Karlien
Jan 3011 min read


6 Things Every Parent Should Know About Teen Sports Nutrition
If you have a sporty or very active tween or teen, you’ve probably realised that keeping them well-fuelled can feel like a full-time job. Long training days, eating-on-the-go (in the heat!), large appetites (or days when they insist they’re “not hungry at all”) — it’s a lot for any parent to manage. And the sports nutrition advice online? Often confusing, overwhelming, or simply not tailored to real and busy families. My goal is simple: to make sports nutrition for young teen

Karlien
Dec 1, 202514 min read


Why ‘Wait and See’ is Not a Plan When It Comes to Disordered Eating in Children
I understand the temptation. When faced with something like food, eating or body image distress in children, it’s easy to worry that you’re overreacting. To tell yourself you’re being paranoid. It feels like something that happens in the movies, to other families, not yours. And besides, it’s not that bad, right? Every teenager worries about their body. Every child skips meals. Right ? And you really don’t want to start another fight with your already on-edge teen. And so whe

Karlien
Oct 25, 202513 min read


Children’s Gut Health Quiz: From Poop to Probiotics
Concerned about your child’s gut health? This parent-friendly quiz addresses children's poop habits, constipation, probiotics, diet, and what’s genuinely worth worrying about.

Karlien
Sep 10, 202514 min read


Back to School, Back to Routine: Menu Planning with a Little Help from AI
Mealplanning for busy families

Karlien
Aug 18, 20257 min read


5 Things I’ve Learned in 20 Years as a Dietitian (Plus One Bonus Lesson)
This year marks 20 years since I graduated as a registered dietitian. Here is what I learned.

Karlien
Jul 29, 20259 min read


When Travel Disrupts Eating: Strategies to Support Eating While on Holiday
Feeding kids while travelling during the holidays is rarely straightforward, and it's a familiar challenge for many of the families I...

Karlien
Jun 17, 20258 min read


More Than the Mirror: How to Help Kids Develop a Positive and Resilient Body Image from the Start
Everyday Habits That Help Kids Appreciate and Accept Their Bodies. When your child looks in the mirror, what do they see? Is it...

Karlien
May 16, 20257 min read


10 Things You Didn’t Know (But Should) About Nutrition for Tweens and Beyond
Most families I work with are navigating the tween years (ages ~7–12) , and over time, I’ve noticed a common theme: parents often aren’t...

Karlien
Mar 25, 202514 min read


ADHD and Overeating Behaviour in Children: Working Towards an Understanding of the Role of Food in Neurodivergence
This article delves into the complex relationship between ADHD and compulsive or overeating behaviours in children and teenagers, drawing on existing research, the lived experiences of others, and my experiences working with families as a dietitian. Understanding the unique ways in which neurodivergent kids interact with food and the societal pressures exacerbating these challenges, we can take a compassionate and practical approach to nurturing their well-being. Food plays a

Karlien
Feb 6, 20259 min read


Is My Child’s Eating a Problem, or Am I Overthinking It?
As parents, worrying about your child’s eating habits, their relationship with food, and how they perceive their bodies is natural. But...

Karlien
Jan 15, 20257 min read


5 Ways to Reduce Mealtime Stress This Holiday Season
Holidays are a time for family, celebration, and togetherness, but they can also present challenges—especially around mealtimes. For...

Karlien
Dec 13, 20244 min read


6 Phrases to Avoid Around Kids This Holiday Season (So You Don’t Sound Like the Diet Culture Grinch!)
The holidays are here! They are a time for joy, connection, and delicious traditional foods. But let’s face it - the season can also...

Karlien
Dec 6, 20245 min read


Underfuelling and Overtraining Signs in Youth Athletes: A Guide for Parents
Learn how to spot underfuelling and overtrained signs and fuel your child’s goals with nutrition. Youth athletes have unique nutritional...

Karlien
Nov 8, 20245 min read


Navigating Nutrition Challenges and Food Anxiety with a Dietitian
Understanding the Role of a Family Dietitian-Nutritionist Have you ever wondered how a dietitian and nutritionist can help your family or...

Karlien
Oct 11, 20245 min read


What Can You Tell Me That I Don't Already Know? Picky Eating Edition
A few years ago, I had a discovery call with Natalie, the parent of a picky eater. The first thing she said to me was, “My 5-year-old...

Karlien
Aug 23, 20245 min read


3 Things Parents of Picky Eaters Wish You Knew This Summer Holiday
Many families in Singapore travel during the holidays to visit friends and family. Vacations are exciting but stressful, especially with...

Karlien
Jun 11, 20242 min read


5 Ways Dysregulation Can Show Up at Mealtimes
Before having children, you might have anticipated mealtimes as a peaceful time for nourishment and connection, but now they feel like a...

Karlien
May 21, 20244 min read
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